A creative director in an old Model T plant told me "no" at 22. Later in my career, an accelerator folded, a protocol didn't hold, and a marriage ended. Kanye asked what's left when it all falls down. I've had four chances to find out, and I'm still learning to let someone else answer.
Two kids wanted to be somebody. J. Cole documented his entire life and career in the open. Henry Hill took the shortcut and got the table at the Copacabana. Sixteen years later I'm still working out which one of them got the better deal.